The Healing Centre provides support resources for your healing journey: articles, essays and other
informative materials to help you find the answers you are looking for (see Menu Bars above, and
additional links below here:.
Along with this it provides Retreats, Workshops and Seminars for healing, recovery, and inner
re-integration; bringing self-renewal, connectedness, empowerment, and healing. They involve all
three levels of our being: Mental, Spiritual and Emotional
~ Better Lives
- Better Relationships
- Better Families
~Regain Joy In Your Journey - and Life
informative materials to help you find the answers you are looking for (see Menu Bars above, and
additional links below here:.
Along with this it provides Retreats, Workshops and Seminars for healing, recovery, and inner
re-integration; bringing self-renewal, connectedness, empowerment, and healing. They involve all
three levels of our being: Mental, Spiritual and Emotional
~ Better Lives
- Better Relationships
- Better Families
~Regain Joy In Your Journey - and Life
| Related Topics and Support Articles |
| Depression: Causes and Treatment Communication: Dialogue; Talking Things Out Peak Experiences Hierarchy of YOUR Human Needs Your Human Potential Trust Issues in Relationships/Friendships Trust Building (the relationship killer) TRUST starts with You Communicate: Talk Things Out Stinkin' Thinkin' The negative, self-defeating thought patterns of dysfunction When Life Hurts Relationship Phobia Forgiveness Awesome STRESS Analogy |
The Help and Information here are not just "Psychological", "Philosophical", "Medical" nor
"Theological": rather it a distillation of knowledge based on the wisdom garnered by humans over
the ages - and added-to by former clients, students - and through observing people in many
places and situations during a long time-frame. They are based on Life in all its glory.
LIFE is meant to be Lived!
Life is NOT: your job, career, "role" or profession; those are only the means of income that allows
you to live Life! Life is NOT: your household and property chores, tasks and maintenance; these
are simply the things that enhance and maintain the quality and atmosphere of the place where
you do much of your "living".
Life IS:
all the things life brings you.
"Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation.
Use it!" "We're all walking each other home". ~Ram Dass
Every Journey begins with a single step.
Yours too; your First step . . .
No one can walk with you till you take that first step, beautiful person.
"Theological": rather it a distillation of knowledge based on the wisdom garnered by humans over
the ages - and added-to by former clients, students - and through observing people in many
places and situations during a long time-frame. They are based on Life in all its glory.
LIFE is meant to be Lived!
Life is NOT: your job, career, "role" or profession; those are only the means of income that allows
you to live Life! Life is NOT: your household and property chores, tasks and maintenance; these
are simply the things that enhance and maintain the quality and atmosphere of the place where
you do much of your "living".
Life IS:
- your personal state of being in all your wholeness.
- being at peace in harmony with yourself and with your loved ones.
- the actualizing and development of your full spiritual and emotional potential:
- a celebration of your relationship with yourself - and with others; for it is the
all the things life brings you.
"Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation.
Use it!" "We're all walking each other home". ~Ram Dass
Every Journey begins with a single step.
Yours too; your First step . . .
No one can walk with you till you take that first step, beautiful person.
| GRIEF-Grieving Insecure Personality Dependent Personality All About Love AUTISM NeuroDiversity Spectrum FEAR A comprehensive section on fear Guilt Intro to what it is & isn't and how to deal with it ANGER & its Management (revised) The "Inner Critic" (that voice inside) Inner Child - the Child Within Self-Sabotaging/Self Defeating Behaviours Emotion <-> Logic An introduction on this subject Human Communication The complexities of ordinary communication |
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"Roadside Assistance" on your healing journey.
Helping the Wounded Create Their Healing Space
NOTE: Please remember that the various "disorders" are
classifications that mental health professionals use to
narrow things down to help them arrive at the causes of the
challenges and "ailments": they are NOT real. It is time to
demystify them, and the site is continually being updated
and revised to facilitate this. Since there is a lot of
information here, many (or most) pages are in transition.
I hope they may be helpful to you.
Introduction:
The many shades of being and behaviour human beings
come in, is at times totally baffling, sometimes frustrating or
bewildering, and sometimes annoying or hurtful. And at
other times people seem to rise above themselves and are
caring, joyful and considerate.
* There are those who seem blithely or blissfully unaware
of the effects their behaviour, words and actions have on
others; or are aware but don't understand the fuss; and
there are those who are totally aware, but couldn't
care less. NOTE: related support links follow below.
Helping the Wounded Create Their Healing Space
NOTE: Please remember that the various "disorders" are
classifications that mental health professionals use to
narrow things down to help them arrive at the causes of the
challenges and "ailments": they are NOT real. It is time to
demystify them, and the site is continually being updated
and revised to facilitate this. Since there is a lot of
information here, many (or most) pages are in transition.
I hope they may be helpful to you.
Introduction:
The many shades of being and behaviour human beings
come in, is at times totally baffling, sometimes frustrating or
bewildering, and sometimes annoying or hurtful. And at
other times people seem to rise above themselves and are
caring, joyful and considerate.
* There are those who seem blithely or blissfully unaware
of the effects their behaviour, words and actions have on
others; or are aware but don't understand the fuss; and
there are those who are totally aware, but couldn't
care less. NOTE: related support links follow below.
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* On the opposite side of that, are those who are on the receiving end of the
above, desperately wondering how anyone could be so unaware, or hurtfully
to know that the other is aware but appears to have actually chosen to be (or
stay) that way. And they want to understand it, or discover what they can do
about it, or not.
Untangling it is not easy: there are "Issues", "Challenges", "Syndromes",
"Disorders", "Spectrums (Spectra)" and all sorts of other names and labels
attempting to make some sort of order into that seeming chaos.
I do not have "THE" answer(s) for you, but I can help YOU find the answer(s)
you need. (The answer(s) are already inside you - you'll rediscover them on
your healing journey, here and elsewhere).
I have nothing to sell: I simply provide "Roadside Assistance", so to speak, for
Healing and Recovery in a Fear-based Shaming-Blaming culture that is often
very much Fear-Based: a Culture of Dysfunction - but not as widespread as it
may seem, or feel. But you'll find many encouraging examples of many, many
exceptions to it, here.
There are two important truths you'll rediscover as you browse the site:
1 - YOU are not your "Label", your "Disorder", or your "Disease", and,
2 - OTHERS are not their "Label", their "Disorder", or their "Disease", etc.
above, desperately wondering how anyone could be so unaware, or hurtfully
to know that the other is aware but appears to have actually chosen to be (or
stay) that way. And they want to understand it, or discover what they can do
about it, or not.
Untangling it is not easy: there are "Issues", "Challenges", "Syndromes",
"Disorders", "Spectrums (Spectra)" and all sorts of other names and labels
attempting to make some sort of order into that seeming chaos.
I do not have "THE" answer(s) for you, but I can help YOU find the answer(s)
you need. (The answer(s) are already inside you - you'll rediscover them on
your healing journey, here and elsewhere).
I have nothing to sell: I simply provide "Roadside Assistance", so to speak, for
Healing and Recovery in a Fear-based Shaming-Blaming culture that is often
very much Fear-Based: a Culture of Dysfunction - but not as widespread as it
may seem, or feel. But you'll find many encouraging examples of many, many
exceptions to it, here.
There are two important truths you'll rediscover as you browse the site:
1 - YOU are not your "Label", your "Disorder", or your "Disease", and,
2 - OTHERS are not their "Label", their "Disorder", or their "Disease", etc.
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| Klaas Tuinman MA at the virtual Dawn Cove Abbey online |
| Helping you navigate Life's many challenges |
Re-visioning Human Behavioural NeuroDiversity in a new Key
| Healing Centre - Main |
| Healing Centre Mental, Spiritual, and Emotional Healing Assistance |
| Klaas Tuinman BA Hon. (Queens), MA * Dawn Cove Abbey originated as a 30 acre retreat and meditation centre by the Bay Of Fundy, Nova Scotia: due to changing circumstances it is now a virtual one. "Roadside Assistance" for your Journey through Life - Dedicated to helping people return (and maintain) sanity and decency to life - Comments and Questions are welcomed |