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| The Healing Centre provides support resources for your healing journey: articles, essays and other informative materials to help you find the answers you are looking for. Topics include:
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| "Disorders" list and Topics and Support Articles are listed farther below |
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Introduction:
The many shades of being and behaviour human beings come in, is at times totally baffling, sometimes
frustrating or bewildering, and sometimes annoying or hurtful. And at other times people seem to rise
above themselves and are caring, joyful and considerate.
* There are those who seem blithely or blissfully unaware of the effects their behaviour,
words and actions have on others; or are aware but don't understand the fuss; and there
are those who are totally aware, but couldn't care less.
* On the opposite side of that, are those who are on the receiving end of the above, desperately
wondering how anyone could be so unaware, or hurtfully to know that the other is aware but
appears to have actually chosen to be (or stay) that way. And want to understand it, or
discover what they can do about it, or not.
Untangling it is not easy: there are "Issues", "Challenges", "Syndromes", "Disorders", "Spectrums"
and all sorts of other names and labels attempting to make some sort of order into that seeming chaos.
I do not have "THE" answer(s) for you, but I can help YOU find the answer(s) you need. (The
answer(s) are already inside you - you'll rediscover them on your healing journey, here
and elsewhere).
I have nothing to sell: I simply provide "Roadside Assistance", so to speak, for Healing and Recovery
in a Fear-based Shaming-Blaming culture that is often very much Fear-Based: a Culture of
Dysfunction - but not as widespread as it may seem, or feel. But you'll find many encouraging
examples of many, many exceptions to it, here.
There are two important truths you'll rediscover as you browse the site:
1 - YOU are not your "Label", your "Disorder", or your "Disease", and,
2 - OTHERS are not their "Label", their "Disorder", or their "Disease", etc.
The Help and Information here are not "Psychological", "Philosophical", nor "Theological": rather it is
based on the wisdom garnered by humans overt the ages - and added-to by former clients, students -
and through observing people in many places and situations during a long time-frame. They are based
on Life in all its glory.
LIFE is meant to be Lived!
Life is NOT: your job, career, "role" or profession; those are only the means of income that allows you
to live Life!
Life is NOT: your household and property chores, tasks and maintenance; these are simply the things
that enhance and maintain the quality and atmosphere of the place where you do much of your "living".
Life IS:
all the things life brings you.
"Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation.
Use it!" "We're all walking each other home". ~Ram Dass
Every Journey begins with a single step.
Yours too; your First step . . .
No one can walk with you till you take that first step, beautiful person.
The many shades of being and behaviour human beings come in, is at times totally baffling, sometimes
frustrating or bewildering, and sometimes annoying or hurtful. And at other times people seem to rise
above themselves and are caring, joyful and considerate.
* There are those who seem blithely or blissfully unaware of the effects their behaviour,
words and actions have on others; or are aware but don't understand the fuss; and there
are those who are totally aware, but couldn't care less.
* On the opposite side of that, are those who are on the receiving end of the above, desperately
wondering how anyone could be so unaware, or hurtfully to know that the other is aware but
appears to have actually chosen to be (or stay) that way. And want to understand it, or
discover what they can do about it, or not.
Untangling it is not easy: there are "Issues", "Challenges", "Syndromes", "Disorders", "Spectrums"
and all sorts of other names and labels attempting to make some sort of order into that seeming chaos.
I do not have "THE" answer(s) for you, but I can help YOU find the answer(s) you need. (The
answer(s) are already inside you - you'll rediscover them on your healing journey, here
and elsewhere).
I have nothing to sell: I simply provide "Roadside Assistance", so to speak, for Healing and Recovery
in a Fear-based Shaming-Blaming culture that is often very much Fear-Based: a Culture of
Dysfunction - but not as widespread as it may seem, or feel. But you'll find many encouraging
examples of many, many exceptions to it, here.
There are two important truths you'll rediscover as you browse the site:
1 - YOU are not your "Label", your "Disorder", or your "Disease", and,
2 - OTHERS are not their "Label", their "Disorder", or their "Disease", etc.
The Help and Information here are not "Psychological", "Philosophical", nor "Theological": rather it is
based on the wisdom garnered by humans overt the ages - and added-to by former clients, students -
and through observing people in many places and situations during a long time-frame. They are based
on Life in all its glory.
LIFE is meant to be Lived!
Life is NOT: your job, career, "role" or profession; those are only the means of income that allows you
to live Life!
Life is NOT: your household and property chores, tasks and maintenance; these are simply the things
that enhance and maintain the quality and atmosphere of the place where you do much of your "living".
Life IS:
- your personal state of being in all your wholeness.
- being at peace in harmony with yourself and with your loved ones.
- the actualizing and development of your full spiritual and emotional potential:
- a celebration of your relationship with yourself - and with others; for it is the
all the things life brings you.
"Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation.
Use it!" "We're all walking each other home". ~Ram Dass
Every Journey begins with a single step.
Yours too; your First step . . .
No one can walk with you till you take that first step, beautiful person.
| GRIEF-Grieving Insecure Personality Dependent Personality All About Love AUTISM NeuroDiversity Spectrum FEAR Guilt Intro to what it is & isn't and how to deal with it ANGER & its Management (revised) The "Inner Critic" (that voice inside) Inner Child - the Child Within Self-Sabotaging/Self Defeating Behaviours Multiple Personality Dissociative Identity Disorder Emotion <-> Logic An introduction on this subject Self Esteem - Self WORTH Assertiveness -Balanced Self Determined Behaviour Self Esteem Human Communication The complexities of ordinary communication Forgiveness |
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Please remember that the various "disorders" are classifications that mental health professionals
use to narrow things down to help them arrive at the causes of the challenges and "ailments":
they are NOT real. It is time to demystify them, and the site is continually being updated and
revised to facilitate this. Since there is a lot of information here, many (or most) pages are in
transition. I hope they may be helpful to you.
use to narrow things down to help them arrive at the causes of the challenges and "ailments":
they are NOT real. It is time to demystify them, and the site is continually being updated and
revised to facilitate this. Since there is a lot of information here, many (or most) pages are in
transition. I hope they may be helpful to you.
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| ___________________________________________________ Dawn Cove Abbey "Roadside Assistance" for your Journey through Life - Dedicated to helping people return (and maintain) sanity and decency to life - ____________________________________ From, "One! The Journey hOMe", the eBook by Klaas Tuinman M.A © 2007-2020 Comments and Inquiries are welcome |