If we remember how important we are to each other,
how we can be each other’s creator. . .
because we alone can see through our masks . . .
We will not pass each other by.

Love is stronger than any walls
So let us not give up . . .
I need you.
We need each other. 1
Contributed by Kristen
Open your eyes and heart up
to a more clearer way
of looking
at love
and life.

I realize that . . .
If I don't have wisdom,
I can only teach you my ignorance.

If I don't have freedom,
I could only put you in a cage.

It takes two to see one.
You want to know who you are.
I want to know who you are,
and who I am.

Look at the eyes of the people around you
who love you.
They are the only people
who will tell you
that you've got dirt on your nose.
The person who loves you is going to say,
Hey, honey, there's dirt on your nose."

So if we get into an argument,
if we should disagree,
do we say,
"That’s it, to hell with you, I quit.
I'm not going to work anything out with you.
Who wants the trouble?
Why solve anything?
It's easier to find someone else

When difficulty or unpleasantness arises,
and you feel you can't stand it anymore,
is the only option simply to quit and leave?

Love is not appliance that can be turned on
and off, like a light by a switch.
It’s not really freedom to walk away and leave
when a relationship becomes dull and sluggish.
How could there be no regret,
sadness, or sense of loss
because a lasting relationship
between two people who were loving
seems no longer possible

To strive for intimacy
is a risk
and may bring pain.

But the only way you are ever going
to see yourself and grow
is in an intimate relationship.

When I love you
and you love me,
we're like each other's mirror;
we see infinity.

If I want to know about me,
I won't find it by living alone.
I'm going to find it by your responses to me.

If you want to know about you,
You won't find it by living alone.
You'll only find it
through my responses to you.

When you explain,
I try to see the world through your eyes,
so that I can know and understand you better.

I hope you to try to see the world through my eyes,
when I explain,
so that you can know and understand me better.

To expose feelings
is to risk showing your true self.
"What else do I have to show?"

To place your ideas
and your dreams
before a crowd,
is to risk being called naive.
Oh, I'm called worse things than that."

To love is to risk
being loved in return.
"To live is to risk dying."
I'm not ready for that.

Don't you dare shed one tear if you hear that
I blew up in the air, or dropped dead.
I did it with enthusiasm!

"To hope is to risk despair
and to try
is to risk failure

But risks must be taken,
because the greatest risk in life
is to risk nothing.

The person who risks nothing,
does nothing,
has nothing,
feels nothing
becomes nothing.
Do not let the pain of one season
destroy the joy of all the rest.
Do not judge life
by one difficult season.
Persevere through the difficult patches
and better times are sure to come.

Live Simply - Love Generously.
Care Deeply - Speak Kindly.
Leave the Rest to God. 2
MorningStar Inspirations from
Dawn Cove Abbey
Roadside Assistance For Your Journey Through Life
- Dedicated to helping people return (and maintain) sanity and decency to life -
From the eBook: "One! The Journey hOMe", by Klaas Tuinman MA, © 2007-2019

Questions and comments welcomed.
No-one is an island. 3
[1] The Walls Of Love (Risking)
[2] ~Anon
[3] ~John Donne
Risking The Walls Of Love
S/he may avoid suffering and sorrow,
yet avoidance brings its own sufferings;
s/he simply cannot learn
and change
and feel
and grow
and love
    and live.

"To laugh is to risk appearing the fool."
Well, so what?
Fools have a lot of fun.

"To weep is to risk being called sentimental."
Of course I'm sentimental;
I love it to tears!

Tears can help to reach out
to another
    and risk

"Who's risking involvement?"
    I want to be involved.

            I see people who are always saying,
I'm a lover.
    I really believe in love.
    I act the part
    and then they shout at the waitress,
Where's the water?"

I will believe your love
when you show it
in action.

Each day I promise myself
not to try to solve
all of my life's problems at once.
Nor shall I expect you to do so.

Take it easy
- you can't be the perfect lover tomorrow,
but maybe next week . . .

Starting each day,
I shall try to learn something new about me
and about you
and about the world we live in,
    so that I may continue
    to experience all things
            as if they have been newly born.

You're never the same person.

            After tonight
you're going to be different.
Even if it only means a little bit older.

Starting each day,
I shall remind myself to really listen to you
and to try to hear your points of view
- remembering that we're both growing
and changing in a myriad of ways.

Starting each day,
I shall remind myself I am human
and not demand perfection from you
until I am perfect.

Starting each day,
I shall strive to be aware
of the beautiful things in our world.

Starting each day,
I remind myself to reach out
and touch you gently with my fingers,
because I don't want to miss feeling you.

Starting each day,
I shall dedicate myself,
to the process of being a lover . . .
    and then see what happens.

You know . . .
that I'm really convinced
that if you were to define love,
    the only word big enough to engulf it
    would be . . .



And if you miss love,
you miss
    Please don't